Wins & Woes
Welcome to the heart of Wins & Woes, where we share real lessons, tools, and strategies to help you grow. Dive into our blog for honest stories, encouragement, and a community that understands the journey of balancing career and personal life. This space is about real talk — no gimmicks, no hype.
My greatest win: Finding balance
After more than two decades in business, I’ve celebrated plenty of milestones—sales goals met, campaigns that exceeded expectations, and teams that grew stronger with every challenge. But when I stop to reflect, none of those accomplishments come close to what I consider my greatest win: my family.
For years, I chased success with the mindset that professional achievement had to come first, and personal fulfillment would somehow fall into place later. What I’ve learned is that true success isn’t about one or the other—it’s about finding a rhythm where business and personal life support each other rather than compete. That elusive balance doesn’t mean everything is perfect all the time, but it does mean I can show up fully at work without sacrificing the moments that matter most at home.
The real victory is building a life where my career fuels growth, purpose, and stability—while also leaving space for the relationships that give it all meaning. In the end, business wins feel fleeting if they cost us what matters most. When work and family blend seamlessly, that’s not just balance—it’s the definition of success.
My toughest challenge: Being the “new girl”
One of the hardest challenges I’ve faced throughout my career has been stepping into new roles—especially when it meant being the “new girl” in unfamiliar territory. Walking into a workplace where everyone else already knows the processes, personalities, and unspoken rules can feel daunting. Add to that the pressure of filling someone else’s shoes, and the weight of expectation only grows heavier.
What I’ve learned is that the only way through those moments is to stay open. Open to new ideas, open to learning, and open to making mistakes along the way. Sometimes, that has meant taking it on the chin—facing setbacks or criticism—but then getting back up, dusting myself off, and trying again. Resilience is often built in those small, unglamorous moments when you choose to keep moving forward.
At the same time, I’ve discovered it’s crucial not to lose yourself in the process. You can’t thrive by trying to be a carbon copy of your predecessor—or anyone else, for that matter. The real key is allowing your own light to shine, bringing your perspective, your strengths, and your authenticity to the table. By carving out your own path instead of walking someone else’s, you create space not just to succeed, but to truly grow.
Who is Wins & Woes for?
Wins & Woes is for people who are driven to grow but sometimes feel stuck in the messy middle of balancing it all. Maybe you’re stepping into a new role, leading a team for the first time, building a business, or simply trying to keep your career and personal life in harmony. At times, you may feel overwhelmed by the pressure to “get it right,” unsure how to handle setbacks, or even questioning if you’re on the right path.
This space is meant to remind you that you’re not alone in that struggle. Here, you’ll find honest stories of both the wins that fuel momentum and the stumbles that teach the most valuable lessons. My hope is to give you encouragement, practical takeaways, and the reassurance that success isn’t about perfection—it’s about growth, resilience, and letting your own light shine as you carve out your unique path.
The cake and the icing
When it comes to blogging—or really any creative project—it’s easy to get caught up in the question: Can I make money doing this? Yes, blogging can bring in income through affiliates, sponsors, or other partnerships. And I’m not against that at all. But here’s how I see it: money is the icing on the cake.
Wins & Woes itself is the cake. Its purpose is already sweet enough—to share real lessons, both the wins and the missteps, in a way that helps others learn and grow. If some opportunities for income come along, that’s wonderful, but it will never be the driving force. The heart of this space is authenticity, encouragement, and connection. The cake stands on its own. The icing just makes it a little prettier.